Most seniors will adamantly insist that driving is not a problem and that they pose no danger to themselves or others, even if they have demonstrated otherwise. Driving provides a sense of independence and control that is very difficult to surrender.

When a senior’s driving ability begins to deteriorate, classic comebacks include, “I don’t drive very far from home,” or “I never drive alone.” Unfortunately, many crashes occur at lower speeds and near home. A “co-pilot” is no solution either, unless the car is equipped with dual controls.

Since individuals age differently, there is no precise time to take away the car keys. However, friends and family members can watch for warning signs of unsafe driving and take them as indicators that it may be time to discuss the potential dangers of continued driving:

• Forgetting how to find familiar places
  Failing to observe traffic signals
  Becoming easily angered or confused while driving
  Deteriorating vision or night vision
  Judging distance poorly (turns that are too wide or too tight, running over curbs)
  Driving too fast or too slow for conditions

The restriction or cessation of driving privileges is almost always an emotionally charged issue. If it’s time to put away the keys, here are some tips that can help you deliver the news and ease the transition:

• Have someone whom the senior respects and trusts recommend that he or she stop driving
  Ask his or her attorney or insurance agent to explain the potential for liability
  Assess his or her driving skills through an independent driving school
  Ask a doctor to write a “do not drive” prescription
  Offer to drive the senior or arrange for other transportation
  Park the car on another block or in a neighbor’s driveway
  Hide the car keys or disable the car by removing the distributor cap or battery

Do not be surprised if there is anger, and even tears, when the message is delivered. Be prepared to stand firm. The consequences of unsafe driving are too great to do otherwise.